It is really disappointing how, ‘sisters’, in the name of cheap religious excuses jump into relationships and marriages, only to want out when the avoidable is faced.
Nobody is perfect, nobody knows it all but please stop citing The Highest when you are asked questions about the person you want to marry.
Yes, you cannot know it all but you can KNOW ENOUGH to keep you better informed. Taking your time to court properly will increase your probability of knowing more and getting it right.
Go round today in gatherings where stories are shared all over social media and see the nature of things women are screaming about….many of whom went in and did not even try, in the name of ‘mispropagated’ religion.
I am all for prayers, I am all for faith but please do the needful. Do your research, ask questions, get a situation that makes you comfortable, be an asset. Then you can pray and fast for support.
Many of the things that become fully exhibited in marriage exist in smaller bits during courtship. If you pay attention, you make your situation better.
What’s worse is how those currently experiencing it and do not even know past what strangers tell them to do in the comments section are the same ones telling the singles it is sinful to court.
Keep at it Y’all, don’t tell the younger ones the truth because Y’all live in self-denial, okay?
One day, when they find themselves battling what you battle today, they’d remember you for the right or wrong reason.
Peach & Pear Counsel ©