The usual adage which says the fastest route to a man’s heart is through his stomach remains ever green till date because it still rings very true. There are two major things men usually appreciate in women no matter how beautiful, sexy, well behaved, religiously inclined or what have you; and that is the ability to cook great meals and how crazy she can be in bed. A wife who possesses these two skills can hardly go wrong and would definitely be of great value to her husband; this is because his mumu button isnt usually far from these areas. A woman just needs to be a bit creative in changing the scenario from time to time while still having the same idea and she would definitely have her man where she wants him to be. Watch a man closely, when he comes back home from an hectic day at work one of his immediate demand would be ‘food’ right? and he won’t joke with it neither would he loose concentration until he must have swallowed the last morsel. Then, he turns very pleasant and more receptive after the sumptuous meal and won’t mind showing his gratitude in bed. Granting him access and giving him scintillating sex will most likely make him the mumu you want at that moment.
No wonder when a man acts so soft and gullible with his wife, people usually believe that she must have added something into his meal to make him the fool he is. They may be right with the food aspect but might have gotten it completely wrong with the idea that she had gone diabolical. They do not know the kind of value the wife has given her husband in terms of bedmatics and foodmatics in her version of romantic mathematics. Romance needs some kind of calculation in other for it to be very effective, hence the word romantic mathematics.
Women who know they are lacking in foodmatic skills should humbly learn how to cook sumptuous meals for their husbands. Also in the area of bedmatics they should try to be very flexible and open minded with their husbands. Note that missionary style gets boring over time. Therefore, feel free to let your husband also have you from the rear and the side as well. In fact turn yourself into an acrobat, it is all part of bedmatics anyway. Being adventurous in this area only makes it more fun. Change location. It doesn’t always have to be in ‘za ozza room’. Feel free to do it anywhere in your house as long as it is just the two of you. In addition, it doesn’t have to be at night time always, morning sex isn’t a bad idea at all. Never feel ashamed to show him you are willing to try new things in bed as long as it doesn’t cross the line, after all he is yours and you are his.
Furthermore, in the area of cooking you don’t have to wait till you have time to go for cooking lessons before you are able to improve yourself, likewise you don’t have to wait for hubby to make a move before you can spice up your sex life, make google your friend. By the time a wife tries to satisfy these two areas, the husband becomes naturally more receptive and willing to make his wife happier in return and this would make the marriage bond get better and better.
Don’t say because your man never complains about your cooking or your skills in the bedroom, that means all is well-he may just be tolerating you and might not want to hurt your feelings. Even though you may feel you are good, think of improving yourself often at least for your own good. Also don’t wait until another woman is willing to give him these two things and more in her own version of romantic mathematics. If ever that happens, just kiss your man goodbye, forever!
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